How do you define a player in relationships?

If you had to explain what a player is and how you could spot him (or her) out of a crowd how would you do that? What types of things would they do or say to you?How do you define a player in relationships?
If he seems too good to be true, he probably isn't good at all.How do you define a player in relationships?
If he's a good player you won't know what hit you until it's too late. If he's a bad one they are easy to spot. They are insecure, immature, talk trash, are compulsive liars and have no respect for you or anyone.





They are incapable of having a healthy relationship and don't even know what that is. All they do is use people for their gain.
There are 3 kind of guys out there.





鈥⒙燣OSERS


鈥⒙燩LAYERS


鈥⒙燼nd WINNERS





Every girl hates a ';loser'; and ';player';.


But every girl hates a WINNER more than anything.


Because a WINNER may not even notice her.





';Loser'; and ';player'; are terms created BY WOMEN for OTHER women.





A woman actually thinks a guy who works too hard is a ';loser';.... just because he doesn't pay enough attention to HER. And that's completely unfair - so don't listen to a woman tell you what a ';loser'; is.





';Player'; (or ';serial dater';) is woman-speak for ';a guy who is not interested in ME';. Too bad sweety. We don't HAVE to be interested in you. If a girl doesn't know how to keep a man around - or interested - it doesn't make HIM a ';player';





..... it makes her not worth his time.





WINNERS? Well.... how many times have you heard a woman say '; Wow, that awesome winner ran off with another woman';.....





Never.





You know why? Because women can't afford to believe ';winners'; exist. They have to think of every EX as a loser, or a ';player';. It's how they live with themselves.





But if she's only dating losers and players....


You gotta wonder who the WINNERS are dating.


Apparently not HER.
Usually a player, a really good one, is not easy to spot. They sneak up on you and when you realize they are a player it is too late. The bad players flirt openly and take their chances that they will get their evil way because the one they play with a more stupid than they themselves are.
Nahhhhhhh a player gets paid to play and in the end looses cause the winner is too smart to be a loser.. A winner just don't care,cause in the end freedom is all that matters !!!