Sunday, May 9, 2010

How do you make long distance relationships work?

PLEASE help.





TIPS PLEASE.





and don't just say it doesn't work because I really want to try and even if the chances are low I will still try.How do you make long distance relationships work?
You have to be persistent, loyal, committed, set guidelines for each other. And most of all, the eagerness and love that keeps you two bonded.





You will always have curves and bumps on the road, but if you talk to him and work things out. Then things will work out.How do you make long distance relationships work?
I was in a long distance relationship for a long time and I will tell your it is very hard. But if both people are committed and willing to work at it the relationship can and will work.





The two main things are, in order:


1) Trust


2) Communication





If there is no trust in the relationship it does not matter how often you communicate and what you do the relationship will not work. Also communication is key since you need help building that trust and you need to keep each other in your lives.
The advance of technology such as internet, cellphones etc, had made long-term relationship so much easier to maintain and possible. Sometimes they even breed long-term relationship. It allows people from across the globe to stay in touch as frequent as you want it.





Here are tips to make long term relationship works:





1) Both of you have to have the heart to make it work;





2) Both of you have to discuss and decide when the apart time should end and you will live in the same area;





3) How frequent you should travel to see each other, for example, one month he would fly over and you the other month. In that way, you can always look forward to the next visit;





4) How often should you communicate. Sometimes, even people who live within the vicinity are not as expressive as people who are long-distanced. Keep each other up-to-date about your daily activities which should help to build trust in the relationship ;-) and express your feelings to each other. You see less. Hence, there is a need to talk more.





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All the best in your endeavors.
Awwh well my friends in a long distance relationship and shes always sad :( because she doesn't know if his cheating and when she wants to like do cuple stuff they can't because they live 3 hours away.





idk , you could try visting him , (i guess what would depend on how far he lives) my friend vists her bf once? a month and that kinda helps





i really think you should try getting a guy in your city :), it's easier ,and funner that way because you guys can actually hang out :) goodluck though
Long distance relationships aren't always that bad.You cans till mean up some time and have a dinner date or something.And they do last, I'm currently in one, only because of summer vacation.But what you can do is text all day, everyday, and call each other late at night and talk into the wee hours of the morning.Thats what me and my bf do, sometimes we'll invite friends to talk too so it's not just us.It really makes me miss him less, but we still go out on dates(because he's not really far away)
You can deffinitly make it work.


You need to be willing to make it work for it too. If your old enough to travel or if the person doesn't live to far away you can go see them when you can


I talk to my Girlfriend ALL the time, i even sleep on the phone with her. we have been toegther for almost 3 years now. You both need to be willing to make it work for it to work.
wells i had a long distance relationship it really worked we last like 9 months i fell inlove with him and yea but we broke up cause he hardly had time for me cause he works now his 16 im 15 so yea wells if you really wanna try it go ahead better then to try it before its to late just make sure you make it the best like if he there with you dont cheat play or anything and dont treat the relationship different only cause his far away hope i helped
Move closer...I was in Europe and my wife, then g/f was in North America, made it last about 9 months with seeing each other about 2 times...but you need to get closer to really make it work I believe.
Make a long distance relationship kit, complete with a web cam so you can chat 24/7.
it could only work if both party's are ok with long distances away from each other. and still be able to see each other often, because u just get lonely and tired of waiting all the time.
You can't 'MAKE' a relationship work. It either does or it doesn't.
yeah you cant make anything work, it just will


but call him heaps, dont get to tatchy tho he wont like that..


just call him once a week or so and talk to him on the internet most days
Willpower and trust. That's it. If both of you have it, then you're good.
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