Sunday, May 9, 2010

What do you do if your ex becomes obsession and tries to ruin future relationships?

My brother was dating his ex girlfriend for 6 years and then they broke up last year for about 8 months. He started dating this other girl who has now become obsessive. My brother broke up with her to work things out with his ex girlfriend but the other girl is trying to contact the ex to screw things up for him. What should he do? He is also this girl's boss and his ex girlfriend has now told him she won't talk to him until the other girl is completely out of his life.What do you do if your ex becomes obsession and tries to ruin future relationships?
Well, he should talk to the obsessive girl and tell her that he does respect her, but that their relations need to be purely professional. He needs to tell her that what the two of them shared is over, and that he is trying to work things out with his ex, and that he would appreciate her help. He may mention that he does not enjoy her contacting his ex.





If he leads her on, she will think she still has a chance. He needs to be firm.What do you do if your ex becomes obsession and tries to ruin future relationships?
Oh boy!! I would hate to be him at the moment. I think that we have all been it this situation at some time in our lives. Rule No: 1 never go out with some one from work, It doesn't work most of the time. I think that he should talk to both of them and see what happens, but if they choose to be like they are then that is there choice so leave the ball in there court. U can not change what someone else wants to do. Y may have to think about getting a transfer or another job

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