Relationships require a robotic selflessness and an intuitiveness to the point of mindreading. Why bother?

Who can be bothered even asking a woman out on a date when there is such insane tedium involved in just making a few hours of thankless small talk. People don't realize how meaningless their lives are in a world of 6.7 billion people that is so impersonal that it's impossible not to feel invisible. It's not a small world. It's an insanely overpopulated one.Relationships require a robotic selflessness and an intuitiveness to the point of mindreading. Why bother?
The world you refer to in your question is in your head only and does not exist in the minds of the majority of humans on this planet we share. If asking a woman out on a date is a bother to you, you are pursuing the wrong objective in the wrong way. If your small talk is thankless, do you not play a part in making it so? Why seek the company of another person if all you are willing to adjudge it to be is impersonal? Who is making the judgement that you are indeed invisible, you or others? Do not confuse ';your world'; with ';the world'; as it so obviously isn't. That would be insane.