What is the main cause of unhappiness in relationships?

What is the biggest reason people are dissatisfied in their relationships? What do you think most often causes them to break up and look for someone else?What is the main cause of unhappiness in relationships?
Two primary things:





1. Failure to communicate expectations and desires, to make sure the other person understands what you truly want and expect. (This is a two way street, and both partners must negotiate for agreed behavior.)





2. Unfulfilled desires. One or both partners have a wish of something different, that the other person is unable or unwilling to fulfill. Sometimes two peoples personal growth, and desires start going separate directions, and they can no longer support each other in progressing towards happiness. These can be as simple as ';more church';, ';more exercise';, ';more social life';, or ';less';.. People are always changing, and sometimes those changes result in the inability to fulfill the other persons needs.What is the main cause of unhappiness in relationships?
the biggest reason people are not happy is that they are not honest about all kinds of different things.





who they are


what they want


what makes them happy


why they are mad or upset


what they need to do to be a (better) person





all these things makes people dissatisfied with themselves, and other people.
It is the absolute lack of preparation.............................鈥?br>

People jump into it as though it were a game!


Don't you find it rather strange that we need a license or permit to babysit, to ride a car, to beg on the street, to sell liquor, cigarettes, meat, etc. but when it comes to the most important and serious decision in one's life, such as getting tied up to another soul to bring babies into the world, etc., there is no requirement? It's just there and available for the asking!!! What gives? I wonder! Or is it just par for the course with 2 Corinthians 4: 4?
It's usually miscommunication, but it can also be a lack of respect or a lack of trust.
In my case, it was having a controlling husband. Who doesn't want to change and thinks there's nothing wrong with him..
they take each other for grantide. one reason marriage is horrible and usually doesn't work. i think everybody has to know they can walk away from there lover if it doesn't work out, and not have to give up half there stuff in the process.
';Incompatibility'; is the poison of relationship. Those who detect it early and take corrective measures can prolong their relationship but other wise the relationship is bound to bring unhappiness.