Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Why do homosexual relationships move faster than heterosexual ones?

It seems that all relationships between gay people move faster than heterosexual relationships: the first kiss, making love, and most importantly, moving in together. Why do you think that is ?Why do homosexual relationships move faster than heterosexual ones?
I think a certain part of it is that some of us may feel like there is no reason to take it slow. Up until recently we didnt have the right to get married anywhere. Even though a few states have legalized it, many others have officially banned it. Many states have laws against gay adoption. Some of us just feel like if there is no chance for us to be together and function as a couple, why should we live by heterosexual standards of moving slow, waiting until marriage (That we cant even have) to have sex, waiting until marriage to move in, or even monogamy. Those are all heterosexual practices, and heterosexuals always want to make it clear that we arent the same and dont have a right to be the same. So from my view point, why try? I support and fight for equality laws in marriage and adoption and hate crimes and everything else. But why on earth should I wait for marriage to have sex when Im not even allowed to get married to a woman?





But, that is the more cynical view. The more empathetic view, I think is that we just tend to be more open about stuff. We have all had to think about and come to terms with things about our sexuality that straight people dont have to. Maybe a part of it is that during this coming to terms, we just end up far more comfortable with sexuality than other people do.





Although, I know plenty of heterosexuals that do the same things listed in your post. I dont know that its actually fair to say gay people do it more.Why do homosexual relationships move faster than heterosexual ones?
I don't think gay relationships are any different from straight ones. You're going to get the quick movers in both. I had a straight cousin move in with a guy within two weeks of meeting him. So, I believe both types of relationships have the slow movers, and then the quick movers. It just depends on the people involved.
well i think it's simple. why wait when there's nothing to wait for? if i can't get married then how can i save myself for marriage? but that just goes for certain people. my relationship went fine, just like a ';normal'; one. and we have been together for one year now.
They do?!


Mine didn't, really...





(Then again the only heterosexual relationship I have ever had is an LDR one, and in that sense it is not really comparable.)
Because the two sexes know about each other better in a gay relationship - Men are from Mars, women from Venus.
YES!! I noticed this tooo.. and I really can't figure it out!! I've tried but Idk. Good question. All I know is that it's freaking annoying, everyone wants to get married right away in LGBT.
We fear instinction.


And then we remember we can't procreate so we break up, rinse and repeat...
maybe the ones around you do


i havent even got a relationship yet T.T
Ru Paul told us we '; better work';.


SO we do.......

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