6yrs?? WTF is she waiting for, Jesus to come finalize it?? If she really wanted to marry u then she'd be divorced already. No divorce takes that long.Relationships?
THis is not a healthy relationshippP!!!
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Just because you get engaged, doesn't mean you have to immediately get married.
Congrats!
Never date a married woman. It's the proper thing to not do this. As you can see, it causes too many problems.
Boy what a loaded question and a diffucult and messy relationship you are in with this adulterous woman. Why has she not divorced her husband yet and does he even know that she is cheating on him? She either needs to get serious and divorce him and marry you or she needs to break up with you and go back with him. Sit down with her and ask her what is up and why she is waiting so long for divorce. I personally feel that she is playing you and that she is still with him and playing him at the same time as well. JMHO. IF i were you i would dump her and move on with my life.
I think right now in this country and abroad, marriage %26amp; having children is a scary proposition.
Today, the divorce rate is so high due to no-fault divorce. If you have kids, for women - that means they hold all the cards. A man today has to realize that, love and ';the dream'; aside, the risks to men/fathers far outweigh the rewards. Check the source - some great books on just this issue.
Family court is tilted heavily in favor of women/mothers. Moms have all the rights, get all the benefits, and dad is too often relegated to a visitor in his children's lives while being an ATM machine fro mom. He can lose half (or more) of the cash, cars, house, investments, etc... and worse - the children.
Seriously, if I had known then what I know now about how the divorce machine sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, I would have never gotten married and given up my dream of having a family.
With no-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you don't need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don't have to feel like being married anymore - and with that reality comes the truth - a marriage is no longer a contract, so what's the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone ';doesn't feel like it anymore?'; With women (who have children) initiating almost 3/4 of divorces today (most men don't even see it coming), it's the smart man who chooses not to get married and certainly not have children... and that's a shame.
Why has it taken 6 years to get the divorce? Kind of seems like a red flag to me...
Etiquette says that you can't propose to a married woman and, technically, she is just that! Perhaps you should drop some subtle hints that you are ready to move to the next stage of your relationship but don't feel you can with her marriage still on the books, maybe that will speed things up.
Best of luck, and congratulations
if she is not divorced after 6yrs what makes u think she will ever get divorced. if she really loved you she would of got the divorce by now.
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