I not Hmong but I am Asian, all I can say to you is that Asian parent don't like black because they see black as underachiever and a little bit too dark. I has dated black men and my parents did not approove it even once. I think it okay but then somtime black not like Asian as well. Much happiness to you and hmong girlfrind.How are relationships between the Hmong people and Black Americans?
name is seng lol i am hmong so yea i know what u mean it is hard but hmong thing work like this if you want to marry her then you have to pay them a amount of $$ and then throw like a fat party with a alot of beer trust me not joking but that is the hmong way =P maybe kill a cow too
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yea i'm hmong and my name is kong her, all i gotta say is they just wanted the best for there child so all you gotta do is show them.....and the reason why they want there kid to married a hmong kid is becasue they want to keep there belief, but you can also help them with it to...
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I am Hmong and from what I know, most Hmong parents aren't into having a different culture son-in-law but they might start liking them a little later. I have some cousins that married another culture. Some of their parents don't really like them at first, but later on they start to like them a lot.
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im married to a pretty hmong girl and i am east indian(and im on the dark side). we also have a son too. if i got it right black people and indian people are called the same thing in hmong... ';kadoo.'; i never heard of a black guy dating a hmong girl though but i have met some hmong girls who dated indian guys. from what i know, the white man comes on top. i am lucky though. my wife's parents who don't speak any english like me alot even since day one. other hmong parents and guys(and even some girls) can say whatever they wan't but i have many reasons why my wife is better with me than a hmong guy. her parents are probaly just worried about what others have to say to them but if you have a good educational background, job, morales then it should be all good. african americans kind of don't do well in thoose categories(im not being racially offensive i have nephews and neices who are half black and their the best). so what i am basically saying, make yourself better than the top 5-10% of the best hmong guys and you will have a point to say of why you an african american should be with a hmong girl.
I hope it works out for you two but you have taken on a world of trouble. As the Asian answerer stated you are already behind stereotype issues.
If you can Win Friend and Influence People you might make headway. If you get mad at them she may stay with you but she loses her parents, is it worth that? Too many fish in the sea.
ive worked second shift in a plant in north carolima , and the second and third shift were primarely Hmong, They will test you to see if you have come to work or just pick up a pay check, no w, and it took a while but Id rather work with the Hmong im an older white dude and once they see your serious, they will do everything in thier power to see the job gets done and well done, However with the black there seems to be a problem, IM no raciest, but these guys just dissapear halfway through the shift, which doubles up the load on everyone else, if any thing is said they go to the black supervisor and the hmongs are gone the next day. you can thake it from there, I hate this damned place
bad and they ll never change exept for isolated cases
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